Men~Women~Sex

A very good blogging friend has asked me to submit a guest post to his blog....

I finally managed to get around to it...

  you may read it here....

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Something Different....but Informative~

The Human Body!

      Very informative!

It takes your food seven seconds to get from your mouth to your stomach.

  

 One human hair can support 3kg (6.6 lb). 

 The average man's penis is three times the length of his thumb. 

 Human thighbones are stronger than concrete. 

 A woman's heart beats faster than a man's. 

 There are about one trillion bacteria on each of your feet.

  

 Women blink twice as often as men. 

 The average person's skin weighs twice as much as the brain.

  

Your body uses 300 muscles to balance itself when you are standing still. 

 If saliva cannot dissolve something, you cannot taste it. 

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 Women reading this will be finished now. 

 Men are still busy checking their thumbs.  ')

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~Happy Valentines Day to All~

~Oh, if it be to choose and call thee mine, love, thou art every day my Valentine~  

~If love is blind, why is lingerie so popular?~

~Grow old with me!  The best is yet to be~

~A man is not where he lives, but where he loves~

 ~Love is an irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired~

~Love is a symbol of eternity.  It wipes out all sense of time, destroying all memory of a beginning and all fear of an end~

~Love - a wildly misunderstood although highly desirable malfunction of the heart which weakens the brain, causes eyes to sparkle, cheeks to glow, blood pressure to rise and the lips to pucker~

~We are all a little weird and life's a little weird, and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love~

~Love is missing someone whenever you're apart, but somehow feeling warm inside because you're close in heart~ 

~If I had a single flower for every time I think about you, I could walk forever in my garden~

~Sometimes we make love with our eyes. Sometimes we make love with our hands. Sometimes we make love with our bodies.  Always we make love with our hearts~

Relationships & Roller-coaster Rides!

Up..down, a quick around, a sharp turn left, a sharp turn right, traveling blindly into a tunnel ahead, leading to an instant dead drop...this is a vague, but direct description of two things we experience in life.

One being on a roller-coaster ride the other being in a relationship.

Both rides clearly have a beginning and an ending...yet are still somewhat unpredictable and uncontrollable, this is why they are so hard to resist and so innately tempting to our psyche.

Both rides deliver a chemical reaction that is so addictive and irresistible to our adrenaline, that no matter how scary or unpleasant it seems at times, we continue to return for more.

Neither can offer security or promise, they do however offer the thrill of the unknown, the desire to fulfill a dare or a fantasy and most of all the ability to overcome certain challenges we face through nature and our own subconscious weakness known as 'fear'.

Relationships and roller-coaster rides can be extreme experiences in life. The need for your own balance and inner strength to be able to deal with its twists and turns is vital to the outcome of the ride. If you are too weak, you will loose control and all self-stability in your life. If you are too strong and have no fear whatsoever...your taking the ride for granted, your letting your guard down and without warning, you will end up shocked when it ends unexpectedly.

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Does the attraction of opposites last?

I have often thought about which couple characteristics actually are the most successful in making a happily ever type relationship.

I have heard so many times that opposites attract...what does that mean to you?

To me that statement means that opposites and /or indifference will most definitely attract...but that does not say that those characteristics will last. More than not those same attraction characteristics will be the downfall of a relationship. Possibly if one of the partners is very understanding and patient...the relationship might have a chance.

There are so many different types of couples......

Some couples are almost clones of each other in personality and desires. Others are totally opposite from each other in those same respects.

Some people meet in high school and stay together forever...while others spend many years alone until they finally meet the person they choose to spend the rest of their life with.

Couples that have married because of an unexpected pregnancy or in more redneck terms...the shotgun wedding!

There is the couple which has a master and a servant.

There are also those people who are born in a more traditional country and are involved in arranged marriages.  Do any of them ever truly fall in love?

Then we have those who go through several relationships before finally finding Mr./Mrs right

Last of all... we have the people that never seem to find that right one.

So tell me....which one are you?

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Gender Differences....

You and I both know that relationships can be quite challenging as they do not come without their ups and downs given that we are two completely different genders..
What is key in having a successful and enjoyable relationship is that the ups out number the downs.

When dealing with same or opposite gender relationships, each person experiences changes daily due to the challenges of life. In short nothing or no one will ever stay exactly the same.
In a relationship it is also vital to change together...and stay on the course directed toward the same goals.

Men and women were both gifted with distinct personality differences for a reason. The reason clearly being that they fit together like a puzzle... as long as the right pieces are used in the right spots. For some reason, both men and women seem to constantly want to re-cut those pieces and/or try to fit them somewhere else instead of just accepting what is. This is where we run into so many issues, such as... women wanting men to think like women, men wanting women to think like men....ect.

The main key to any successful relationship is simple. It is called 'acceptance'. We must learn to accept rather than expect.

My being female and writing from thoughts that derive from a female mind, I know it seems that I am always picking on the guys or favoring the girls. Not so....in fact I am indirectly trying to get both genders to see the big picture. It is when we are all tangled up in emotions due to matters of the heart...that the picture tends to get pretty small and our vision can become a bit narrow...very narrow in some cases.

Both genders do have their quirks...that is what makes us unique and individual. Without those gender differences we would not be attracted to each other. We simply would not fit!

Lets take a look at some of the quirks that can so drive a partner around the bend.......

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