Wednesday, April 7, 2010

Sex ~anywhere...anytime~


Nice, catchy title isn't it?

Before you read any further...please be aware that the content arising from my thoughts are going to be a bit adult oriented. So if you are not interested...please do... feel free to carry on to the next blog~

Funny how we tend to deny ourselves the fruits of the tree, without being aware of it. When I speak of the fruits of the tree...I am referring to sex and all of the passion and physical chemicals that come with it. (seriously no pun meant there)

Sex knows no age, body-type, color, language, destination, right or wrongs. Sex just is...without reason or rhyme. We have tried over and over to understand and explain the emotional connection and wiring in the human brain as to what causes and/or controls ones sex drive. Throughout time...more relationships, careers, bank accounts and even lives have been torn apart because of the innate desire and/or need for sex. Sex is more powerful than we have ever given it credit for. It profits huge organizations in that...as the saying goes that.. 'SEX SELLS'.


Sex is fun and it has a very special way of making a person feel freedom in a new way, not to mention what it can do for your ego and confidence about yourself. It is not the most important part of a relationship but it is one of the important parts as it is so emotionally fulfilling between partners.

Getting to the point of my thoughts...before I go down another road, I will, as Jerry Springer would say..'Save that for another show ' as my thoughts today are geared towards sex in the rain or basically anywhere deemed unconventional.

Have you have ever had sex in the rain?
If you haven't...why not?
So many of us, are all too sheltered in thinking that sex anywhere but in a bedroom behind locked doors with the lights out is the only way allowed to have sex. ~~WRONG~~

I promise you that if you dare to have sex in the rain....you will do it again! There is something very magical about being one with nature and I do mean being one. Have you ever wondered why a photo of a male or female with water drops or sweat covering their bodies captures even the most prudent mind? It is because rain has a natural and even raw essence.. which.. when embraced is very sexual. I am sure that many of you have had sex with your partners in the shower and may think that is probably what it would be like having sex in the rain...well it is so not~ Sex in the rain is as pure and heavenly as it was meant to be~

How about having sex somewhere absolutely crazy and unpredictable ... say like at a social function...look for a broom closet and just do it~~ you don't have to tear each other apart or even mess your hair..that is where the term 'quickie' comes to mind and if you never do it again...just the memory will be stimulating enough to get you started~

What about just jumping in the car and going somewhere and parking like in those 'teen days' Gosh...just remember how stimulating and crazy it was then...guess what ladies and gents...it is just as titillating now as it was then and even more so because now you know what to do. Yes..yes, the 'not knowing' was a big part of it all back then....but as that was then so can being in the know be just as much fun, now.

Then there is one for the ladies...you all know to well that you can tickle his fancy when he is driving...now this should be taken under careful consideration as it might be a tad bit dangerous...but with a little awareness on both parties...it can prove to be very hot. I remember this one from the movie 'Father of the Bride'...even though Steve Martin crashed...he did it with a smile on his face :)

Remember the fridge scene...in the movie many moons ago..'9 1/2 weeks'...now there is a movie that introduced the fridge as the hottest and sexiest aphrodisiac for that time era. Ice cubes, chocolate fudge or syrup...anything that one can spread onto a body and lick off is what every person needs to experience. Ladies I promise you that you will never forget the feeling nor will he. I know what your thinking right now... and No... its not a bad thing to get a bit dirty or sticky, you can always wash each other down later...just let your mind of proper'ness and cleanliness go for 1 hour.
Is your relationship not worth the hour? Is your relationship not worth the try?

~Nothing is ever gained if nothing is ever ventured~

As I mentioned earlier in my thoughts...sex knows no age, body-type, color language...ect. If you have a partner and you are not enjoying each other sexually...that is something that you are really missing. Sex between two people is a language without any spoken words. It is a way of sharing, being together, feeling for each other and enjoying what nature has given you and that is being a male or a female. We were not born with a sex drive or a passionate mind for nothing. We were given this gift to enjoy and be productive with.
Just think what having fun sex with your partner will do to the pornography market...I bet it will knock them off of their profit margins tenfold. Personally, I am all for that benefit.

Well I have shared enough of my do or dare thoughts. Now I would like to hear your thoughts about sex in the rain and whether or not you have ever experienced it.

So do tell....where is the wildest place you had sex?

~Leave your name anonymous if you are to shy to dare to share~



54 comments:

Sheila Sultani said...

It's awesome when you find a partner that you feel so comfortable with that you can let all your inhibitions go.

Lily Arbee said...

Hi!
I've read your interesting articles. This should be an eye opener for those couples who have problems in their sex lifes too. They should not be afraid to experiment and be a bit crazy to explore. Yes my dear Dorothy! it is a good articles, nothing dirty or bad, it is just some are shy to disclose their encounters.

I thank you for being so brave in writing this articles and hopefully it helps some couples to make it happen again which spackle their lifes once again!

Bravo Dorothy!

bluecrystaldude said...

You said it, sex is FUN! Sex should be fun! Oh, sex in the rain could be fun. But you may catch flu. Alternatively, you can also have sex in the shower in one of those exotic toilets (commonly in Bali Indonesia and in some private residences in Malaysia) where the toilets are basically roofless. Taking about bringing the outdoors inside!

Have a nice day to you..!

Liz said...

We're young and love stuff like this. :)
I know I've found the man of my life. His the best for me, sex, love and all. Never did it under the rain, but been crazy with each other. Anytime, anywhere.

askcherlock said...

The craziest place I ever did t was in the announcer's booth after a football game. The crowd was gone, but oh boy, what a roar!

ManOverBoard.com said...

Wow D is very expressive this time around and GOOD for you. There should never be any "place" that expressing physical and fun love between two individuals be deemed off limits (as long as it isn't in front of children). As long as your are discreet and use some caution, those tryst can be the most memorable times in ones life. Now I am wondering is making love in church wrong? Is it sacrilegious? (I have never
been amorous in church myself)

To this day I remember every unorthodox place I have had sex in. And to this day would still initiate and do the same as I did in my youth. OK maybe not as bendable as I used to be, but that wouldn't stop me.

Actually not only can the rain make you feel one with nature, so can snow (that definitely is for quickies, unless your partner enjoys frostbite).

Although I would not consider myself a sexual freak, the places I have enjoyed sex in, would take many pages of writing.

For instance just take the airport as one example. From doing it on a runway, to the bathrooms not only on land but in the air (yes the mile high club), the air terminal, to the parking lot. Of course not to mention lovers lane near the airport itself watching the planes land and takeoff.

From golf courses to tops of mountains, oceans to swimming pools. Restaurants to amusement parks. Jeesh see what you started, oops what I started hehe?

For older married couples sometimes we do forget to break loose and have some fun again. I think it is time to add another new spot to enjoy my wife. Of course I can hear her now, what got into me and how come out of the blue. I will have to blame it all on you, or should I say thank you D.

Funny thing if you do something out of the ordinary, women want to know why? Like what did we do wrong for us to initiate this. All I have to do thou is show her this post, LOL

One of The Guys said...

I can't really think of anywhere completely outrageous. But certainly outdoors or in the car....still do. Hey, with kids and a babysitter, sometimes it's the only place. Like you said, it brings you back.

I think in general, a healthy sex life is very important for an individual but also for a couple.

I can speak from the guy's perspective, that sex is the way we like to bond and feel close and connected, more so than talking.

Hi! I'm Grace said...

Indeed, the title is very catchy, and I like it. :)
I agree with you, D, as married couples, we reached in a point where we need to do some rare sex to enhance our appetite. :)

VanillaSeven said...

Maintaining physical wellness and attraction between couple will ensure the "activities" more satisfying.

sexylegsandbody said...

Lol...!!! Dorothy, I bet you speak from experience...haha...naughty you! Being almost 50 on my side, you just brought a load of memories back, and a shy smile, weirdest place.? my office desk after hours... with the risk of anyone walking in, being a police lab where people can rock up at any given time. I was still much younger then I have to add.
In the rain, no not yet, but does a pool count?

I really enjoyed your article, and I agree, sex must never be boring, as soon as that happens, you tend to loose interest.

Thanks for sharing, and thanks for bringing all those memories back.

Have a stunning weekend, and thanks for leaving a thought on my last post.

Colin.

lina@women's perspectives said...

We're a conventional couple, D...
we're doing it just in 2 rooms : bedroom and bathroom :)

Witchmagick said...

It's stuff like this that keeps me coming back to your blog. Honest, pure and not a hint of "dirtiness." I was not as 'adventurous' in my younger years as I am now, but always throughout the years there has been something about the rain that kicks my libido into over drive, when coupling that with a full moon, well, let's just say my husband...much younger husband...can't keep up with me! Kudo's to you for a wonderful article, D!

Jude said...

I'm not as frisky since menopause, but I still like sex and we have fun, but we are pretty conventional and other than the house that's it for us. When I was younger just thinking about getting caught out by someone was very exciting. Have a great weekend.

Dhemz said...

waaaaa..the title is definitely catchy! and I love the picture...so sensual....:)

great topic Ms.D....PG 13...just kidding!

EastCoastLife said...

Sex in the rain sounds awesome. :P

I probably would never do that because my country is so tiny and crowded, there are bound to be spectators. haha....

Vernz said...

Hi D. Wow you got some cool musings here ... which one have you done (LOL!) Awesome write! Have a nice day!

Silvergirl said...

Very interesting article..For sure readers will have a great idea for tonight :P

Sarah said...

Dorothy I really appreciate your way of writing. Just followed. It's honestly refreshing and very informative!
I am totally for couples exploring sexuality in a safe fun way! I love the connection of emotional sex and the rawness of quick powerful sex!
My hubby and I don't get out in public with it but one of my wildest places is our stairwell. Right now I don't have any curtains downstairs and it's kind of exhilarating in the middle of the night!

burn said...

As always, you did an excellent job.

like to try it. but the problem is my hubby is so conservative... gosh! I don't have a chance.

Big Bright said...

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Inside Out said...

This is one of the best articles I've ever read on a blog. I agreed with you 101% that sex is FUN

Ferd said...

Wow!
Now I need to take a cold shower!
:-)

josie said...

two thumbs up Ms. D, though I don't think we can try that, still very conservative LOL..

JENIE=) said...

I just have to read all those comments after your wonderful post!

i'm not sure if it's just humid outside or a blush is creeping up...but this post just made me go back to memory lane. hoping also that the future will be even more entertaining since i believe that the earlier days can be brought back to that future when it comes to sizzling hot sex.

the gents and the ladies still differs when it comes to fulfilling the act. i still believe that men can do so without love but women just can't...though it will soar to unbelievable heights when shared between couple who really have selfless love for one another. and there should not be any inhibitions whatsoever...age for one should not be a barrier to doing crazy things; because these crazy things will keep the love burning and intensify the feeling. may it be as shocking as doing so in a hospital stairway, an elevator that can open anytime, in an open park, on the beach...(LOL) hot hot hot...

why miss out on something so magical and so fulfilling when you and the love of your life have every right to do so?!

gleenn said...

I'm looking forward into having sex in the car. When his driving, and me getting naughty,but we cannot afford a crash so that he has to park the car beside the road. I'm sure his windows are tainted enough to cover us ;)

I love the fact that your articles are getting more daring D!, in a good way, that is.

Hugs
Gleenn

One of The Guys said...

I was in the neighborhood.

Happy Friday!

Paula said...

Coming over from BF. Love this! I used to live with my American partner in Marbella Spain and during the nights when went to the beach and made love just about offshoe. The warmth, the soft rolling waves, the symphony of the sea... I loved it. And we have a fantasy jar! Each of us has a ceratin colored notepad and each fantasy gets written down and dropped into the jar. Once in a while we pick one and go for it straight away. Well, currently separated by the pond I have plenty fo time to write down more and more and send it over to fill up the jar.KNowing he will read them before dropping them all into the jar makes it even more juicy

bleep said...

the photo is as catchy...looks to be, adam and eve in the garden?

but then...the post is a lot better than those wonderful eye catching title and photo! who wouldn't read about sex?!

though not everyone i guess is as blatant in discussing them (blush)

Shauni said...

Great Blog, it has been so long since I was able to come on and when I do you have this fabulous blog here to welcome me.

Anonymous said...

IS VERY GOOD..............................

William K Wallace said...

I must admit I quite enjoy a blow job or handjob or two while driving long distances, it helps me to drive better. Or heading out into the countryside and going for a wee walk and finding some place discreet for a bit of naughty fun.

I haven't tryed sex in the rain yet. But I had sex in the Caribbean Sea a couple of times when I was living in Barbaods not so long ago, and that was a buzz..

Gwen said...

What a great blog. I'm adding you to my reader. I just started a blog about love, marriage, and sex. It'll be great to refer to your blog.

Thanks!
Gwen

resistanCe said...

unfortunately i still virgin

Shyle said...

interesting!

auto said...

Hi!
I've read your interesting articles. This should be an eye opener for those couples who have problems in their sex lifes too.

66speeds said...

intersting, i have read

Anonymous said...

I really appreciate your awesome article yes unconventional sex is really fun, exciting and more fulfilling as well as quicky sex gosh both me and my husband just love it doing elsewhere for he is an adventurous person and am very hot and passionate doing it under the rain is more exiting as if you were just doing it under the shower honestly speaking sex is the only food we can never invite our friends or neighbor to dine with us and i hope those shy couples have to get out from their nests and explore what sex can offer, disclose their inhibition and enjoy the experience this is not a dirty thing its a natural instinct of couples happily loving each other and the fulfillment is heaven...thank you and more power......

B

Eugene said...

sexy interesting post, I liked ur blog

Ninja Media said...

WOW yea sex is fun and is our basic important need.

Wilmaryad Oscallas said...

Oh, Dorothy! You have struck a sensitive chord. :-) Only yesterday did the thought of how wonderful it'd be to make love under the rain cross my mind. The idea sounds sex-tastic. :D I think such intimacy requires love beyond the physical to be fully enjoyed, not the disposable fast food type of sexual encounters.

As for outside-the-bedroom frolicking settings, I've known both front and back car seats, on a building's staircase at midnight, in a field in the middle of nowhere, at a wedding reception ... and in a park UNDER light rain - so much for going home with wet grass stains on one's jeans' knee section :p

Ah, adolescence.

Now, the monk I've become needs to go back to making brie cheese. lol

Deliciously-devilish post! ;)

Sarah said...

Has anyone tried the aromatherapy pillow liner called “My Boyfriend’s T-shirt” from sleep scentsations? You can enjoy the sexy blend of musk, jasmine and sandalwood, to help you have sexy dreams at night and get that manly smell in your mind even if no man is around! haha

Dorothy L said...

Hello Sarah...
I cannot say that I have even heard of this yummie sounding pillow. Perhaps you can return and leave us a link so we can all take a peak at it :)

Wilmaryad Oscallas said...

But men don't smell like jasmine :p

Dorothy L said...

Wilmaryad....
One never knows how ones smell interprets....after all it is said that..beauty is in the eye of the beholder...it could also be said that...ones smell is also in the nose of the beholder~

On the other hand...the scent of wild jasmine is so captivating....Sarah may have been thinking along those lines~

lankapo said...

Hi D
Well I can say that outdoor sex is great without others watching. If not your steamy video will end up in youtube or redtube hehe

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Wilmaryad Oscallas said...

@ Dorothy: In the nose of the beholder! Excellent :)

I have been using Sarah's method since I was 10. I'd spray a pillow with cologne and hold it all night long. I still do it, 17 years later ... :)

ferry'zWILL said...

WHoaa!!! awesome post Ms. D, well as expected..

I've never tried to have sex in the rain, but if I will have the slot to do it.. hahaha I will initiate doing it..

hehehe

Anonymous said...

A brave, and of course, very sexy post.^^

Personality Development said...

..eehehe interesting article indeed.
I prefer to say mostly philosophical. Sex is the greatest GIFT to all the animals who have life including us: HOMO SAPIENS. In some books, i read that we can achieve ORGASM or extreme sexual pleasure even from meditation to extreme level. But i think the easy way to feel that is having sex with the partner of your choice..
Apart from this thing "SEX" for most males can be limited to one night stand, but for females, SEX come in bundled form with emotions and feelings for the partner too

Mel Cole said...

Very stimulating post, D. :)

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Aku Bicara said...

Sex have brought something great in my life. Sometime it look like a cup of coffee that smelling good and sometime it taste like pizza. It will bring my life kept fighting and bring spirit all the time

Jessie said...

Wow! What an engaging article!

Good sex is like that when there's just so much chemistry, hours can pass by and you're enjoying it so much you just totally forget where you are!

I don't think it matters where you have sex for it to be enjoyable - and train sex is something I've yet to try - although I'm going on a journey next month around Europe so may be plenty of opportunities to try!

Keep up the good work, looking forward to your next post!