Saturday, July 26, 2008

A Woman's Self-Worth is a Woman's Self-Survival!

Hey all you beautiful people. I hope that everyone is doing the best that they can with what life has given them. Keep in mind we only have this one life to live and that every second that goes unappreciated is gone forever. Also keep in mind that a Woman`s Self-Worth is a Woman`s Self Survival!

Women are faced with so many more challenges these days and life just seems to really tug at our self-esteem and self-worth.

We go from feeling on top of the world, to feeling like yesterdays floor rag in just one wrong word.

There are so many of us that truly see ugly when we look into the mirror, why is that?

No matter what our lovers or family or even our friends tell us, we still only see ugly every time we look at our reflection.

Where did life go wrong to turn our brains, our thoughts and our visions against ourselves?

Why do we have to try and explain our hormones, I mean is it not enough that we have to deal with the roller-coaster symptoms that plague us monthly?

Why do we have to feel guilty for being a women?

Why do only women bleed?

Why do we get stereotyped because we feel emotions, emotions that we were born with?

Why do young women cut themselves?

Is it because they can only experience real feelings when they do this?

Is it that they feel control over that one thing in their lives?

Do they do it out of a form of punishment, that they feel they deserve because just maybe somewhere in their lives they were wronged and could not stop the wrong?

Why do they not see that there are people in this world that do care and that do want to share their feelings with them?

Is there not enough self-help books, therapists, or positive information sites available to people in need, that they have to resort to destroying themselves due to a void that cannot be filled?

Why do women spend thousands of dollars because they feel that natural aging is wrong and something to be discarded or replaced?

Why do women starve themselves?

Is it to fit into too small of clothing?

Is it to fit a worlds idea of what is acceptable now?

Or is it to feel good about themselves?

I wish that I had all the answers to these questions.

I wish that I could save every woman on this planet from emotional suffering.

I wish that I could tell each and every one of you exactly what you need to hear every time we speak to each other, that being "You have Self-Worth and it is your Self Survival".

I wish that you never had to be hurt or lied to or deceived by anyone.

But mostly I wish that women could fall in love with who they are and never, ever lose that thought.

Life is not funny, people have said that it is. I do not see anything funny about it, with all the diseases and sufferings that people have to endure, I hear no laughing.

I do not see anything funny about addictions to drugs, pornography, alcohol, child abuse, spousal abuse, self abuse, eating disorders, or any other horrible life imprisoning issue.

War is certainly not something to laugh about, watching children starve on television really is not funny, nor does listening to how our education system has failed our future warrant a smile either.

I wish I could say, "poof " and all of this garbage that life has presented to us, would just turn into a field of beautiful flowers.

Do you ever feel like you are going ten steps forward and fifty backwards?

Do you ever feel like you just figured everything out and then one thing totally turns that upside down?

Don`t you just hate that?

I certainly do, I hate all of the negative things that try to take space in my brain and twist it to death.

Do you ever just want to turn your on button off, so that you can sleep just one night without having a nightmare or waking up feeling like, what is good in your life can be stolen away from you at any second?

Do you ever wonder why we are being challenged with all of this turmoil?

I have and I spend every second of my day, trying to figure out ways to help women not feel at least one of these things that I have stated above.

This is why I have created I have tried to make a small little corner in this unsafe world a safe place available to all women, that just need that little bit of time out in their day to not feel worry or ugly.

There is not one women in this world that is not worth it.

There is not one women in this world that should go on a second longer without the knowledge of how, "A Women`s Self-Worth is a Women`s Self Survival".


One Flaw In Women

Women have strengths that amaze men.

They bear hardships and they carry burdens, but they hold happiness, love and joy.

They smile when they want to scream.

They sing when they want to cry.

They cry when they are happy and laugh when they are nervous.

They fight for what they believe in.

They stand up to injustice.

They don't take "no" for an answer when they believe there is a better solution.
They go without so their family can have
They go to the doctor with a frightened friend.
They love unconditionally.
They cry when their children excel and cheer when their friends get awards.
They are happy when they hear about a birth or a wedding.
Their hearts break when a friend dies.
They grieve at the loss of a family member, yet they are strong when they think there is no strength left.
They know that a hug and a kiss can heal a broken heart.
Women come in all shapes, sizes and colors.
They'll drive, fly, walk, run or e-mail you to show how much they care about you.
The heart of a woman is what makes the world keep turning.
They bring joy, hope and love.
They have compassion and ideas.
They give moral support to their family and friends.
Women have vital things to say and everything to give.


As I have said many, many times, we, women must know our worth, taste our worth, feel our worth, see our worth, but most of of we women must SHOW our worth. How else will the world even begin to understand, 'A WOMANS WORTH' and what it means to her Self Survival!




Anonymous said...

It is really a nice post. I am totally agree with you. Your blog is very cool....
keep posting

Paula Radcliffe

iWalk said...

You must be a self-confidence,thoughtful woman, I love your posts.:)

AngelBaby said...

What a wonderful post. If we don't learn to love ourselves we can't love anyone else. I love who I have become in this life and I am very proud of all that I have accomplished. The only problem with this is that men fear me because I have no fear and I do what ever I want to. I can't be controlled and I don't want to control anyone else. This is very scary to men. Sad isn't it. Only a man that knows his self worth can handle a woman like me.

Love and Blessings,

Self-esteem Blog for Women said...

Thank you ladies...I am more than appreciative of the time that you have taken to read and respond with your own thoughts.
I am as confident as my mind will allow...that is fact. Some days are more of a challenge than others. I guess that makes me human:)
The first and most important key to self acceptance is self-love.
Have a very positive day!

Independent Queen said...

We women know our worth. But how to deal with those men who never think of how worth we are and treat us like we are no value....

Jenny R said...

Absolutely wonderful post and I could not agree with you more. Thank you so much for sharing!