tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1634805388842129254.post1965347991187070149..comments2023-10-18T01:03:06.091-07:00Comments on ~Womensselfesteem.com's Relationship Blog~: ~Males...Females...oh what mysteries~Relationshipshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11895229315056122800noreply@blogger.comBlogger36125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1634805388842129254.post-69790849651590212232010-10-01T19:45:26.995-07:002010-10-01T19:45:26.995-07:00Excellent post! I agree with you. Too many women...Excellent post! I agree with you. Too many women today say there are no differences between men and women. That is a large part of the problem. We must accept and celebrate the differences, and come together in our oneness! Equal yet different. Now THAT is beautiful!<br />krissy knox :)krissy knoxhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14541923934162365673noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1634805388842129254.post-60058389373140821352010-07-22T05:50:46.706-07:002010-07-22T05:50:46.706-07:00Hello Dorothy.
As long as we will have the abili...Hello Dorothy.<br /> <br />As long as we will have the ability to think, we will always judge. Judging has been given a negative connotation, much like criticizing, while both mean decorticating a fact into positive and negative. That's how I see it anyways. Blame us Libras! ,-)<br /><br />I wrote something quite lengthy but opted for going with something reasonable. I'd rather have us ponder the world over a much-appreciated tea cup. How did you know I am not a coffee person? :)<br /><br />I hope you won't mind tea over Skype's video + audio chat. The tea and company will remain as good. :)Wilmaryadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05521844359441132973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1634805388842129254.post-8555493727869312010-07-15T08:32:20.373-07:002010-07-15T08:32:20.373-07:00@Wilmaryad...
I too am very drawn out in thought i...@Wilmaryad...<br />I too am very drawn out in thought in how you express your interpretation of people and societies meandering and very molding ways.<br /><br />I have often wondered..if both male and female were in clone type outer shells...more of relationships of the mind...would it be so difficult to simply accept others for who they are or find comfort in being.<br /><br />Your thought on men that are living a gay lifestyle learning to understand, not judge and accept their close neighbors of like is a very effective one.<br /><br />But is that not part and parcel of being human in every way shape and form. Do we not continuously spend way too much time voluntarily or not in judging, outcasting because we feel that we are the all knowing and the mold of perfection?<br /><br />People are people...we do not have the rights on signing the book of life as not one of us can stake that claim to authorship.<br /><br />I have always liked this little saying...Sweep of your own doorstep...before you begin to sweep off anyone one else's'<br /><br />Again my dearest friend...another very inspiring comment and I look forward to the day that I can actually have a tea with you and share a few thoughts with you verbatim ~Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03515108852664219576noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1634805388842129254.post-1008724225214214972010-07-15T08:13:34.287-07:002010-07-15T08:13:34.287-07:00There are many theories as to what makes a fetus g...There are many theories as to what makes a fetus grow to be gay. For example, it's been found that if the kid is the youngest, has 2 elder brothers and is right handed, his chances of becoming gay are pretty high. Go figure. But if you think of the concept of "latent homosexuality" existing between all men, you'd conclude all men are born with a predisposition to becoming gay. However, environment is pivotal in shaping up the little boy's sexual orientation. After comparing my experience with many other gay men, over the years, I have reached the following conclusion:<br /><br />Many, if not most, gay men have either had (1) a violent/ alcoholic/ cold and distant/ absent father; (2) an overbearing/ strict/ violent/ absentee mother; (3) been exposed to some form of child sexual abuse.<br /><br />Oddly, these points infuriated most guys I talked with, because they refuse to attribute their sexual orientation to childhood trauma, and prefer to link it to nature, nor nurture.<br /><br />In closing, some of the gay community needs to show tolerance towards its own members before demanding it from outside the community. The current dynamics of Gaydom, as my friend Ticklebear calls it, are just off-the-hook difficult! <br /><br />Oh well ... :)Wilmaryadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05521844359441132973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1634805388842129254.post-11129430456368005902010-07-05T04:37:38.104-07:002010-07-05T04:37:38.104-07:00hello madam, h r u :)hello madam, h r u :)Aulawi Ahmadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07380884943390891209noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1634805388842129254.post-3321540911474948772010-06-21T20:09:33.526-07:002010-06-21T20:09:33.526-07:00Your article very meaningful. I can't stop it ...Your article very meaningful. I can't stop it to read. but, I believe both of man and woman strive to invent a meaningful their worldClicker Training for Dogshttp://www.clickercompany.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1634805388842129254.post-4689654458082197662010-06-17T14:16:34.938-07:002010-06-17T14:16:34.938-07:00One other item to look at (which unfortunately has...One other item to look at (which unfortunately has hit home recently and thus the desire to post anonymously) is the increase in females having affairs. In addition, the increase in females having not just an emotional (more traditional and more accepted by men) but a physical affair as well (hated by the men).<br /><br />Note that this is another impact of improved birth control on the changing roles of women and men.<br /><br />And the antithesis is that since more women are in affairs and desire the emotional side, more men are finding emotional connection in their affairs as well (which women hate).<br /><br />Studies show an increase in affairs, which has increased the divorce rate. And an increase in those affairs being BOTH emotional and physical which is increasing the divorce rate even more.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1634805388842129254.post-26712016891695524722010-06-12T14:02:14.266-07:002010-06-12T14:02:14.266-07:00Wilmaryad Oscallas ...I couldn't agree more. I...Wilmaryad Oscallas ...I couldn't agree more. I often wonder about all of the chemical unbalances that have created the differences in sexual preferences. When we have same gender relationships ...one is always the more feminine one and the other the more masculine. Similar personality differences as if they were seen physically as a male and a female~ So if we take away the outer shells of human beings and relate only to the meetings and relationships of the minds...would same sex relationships still be so hard for people to accept?<br />Oh I think this may just be deep enough for another post :)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03515108852664219576noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1634805388842129254.post-63475694360796312762010-06-12T09:13:39.568-07:002010-06-12T09:13:39.568-07:00Dorothy, that's why gays were created - to hav...Dorothy, that's why gays were created - to have both men and women hate on them, because they encompass the positives and negatives of both genders. LOL<br /><br />Kidding aside, the ultimate goal for men and women should be to fusion together so as to reach perfect complementarity. Only then, differences will melt away, leaving room for much-needed harmony.<br /><br />Until then, straight women will continue to find a forbidden fruit in their gay male friends (an unattainable better version of "all men are dogs"), and men will continue bedding more women to feel masculine (with the pretext that this is how they were made, by design).<br /><br />Good luck, folks! :DWilmaryadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05521844359441132973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1634805388842129254.post-60112055380711038832010-06-08T06:16:43.543-07:002010-06-08T06:16:43.543-07:00I had one reader to my blog who complained not bei...I had one reader to my blog who complained not being able to understand her man<br /><br />She was in an interracial relationship. It took me time till my team could counsel her.<br /><br />Though gender instincts all over the globe should be the same, interracial relationships tend to paint a different picture than our usual same race onesAJhttp://blogjeez.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1634805388842129254.post-48096685928053530312010-06-02T11:56:11.684-07:002010-06-02T11:56:11.684-07:00hi,
i want to share that male & female r oppos...hi,<br />i want to share that male & female r opposite poles of magnet...& we all know that opposite poles attract each other.<br />luv to see u on my blog too.Amrithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03119918904828251596noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1634805388842129254.post-13658471890859851692010-06-02T08:29:42.079-07:002010-06-02T08:29:42.079-07:00Just stopping in to say hi. Hope you had a nice lo...Just stopping in to say hi. Hope you had a nice long weekend. Looking forward to your next thought provoking post. Take care!One of The Guyshttp://www.theguysperspective.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1634805388842129254.post-40908218177087750412010-06-02T05:57:34.117-07:002010-06-02T05:57:34.117-07:00Hi D, thanks for dropping by Woman’s elan vital an...Hi D, thanks for dropping by <a href="http://www.woman-elanvital.com" rel="nofollow">Woman’s elan vital</a> and for the comment, I appreciate it.<br /><br />I agree with you D, I too has been reading a lot of resources understanding the makes of both gender, but I cease to.... I think its already a matter of compromise...Verna Lugahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17860286723863535535noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1634805388842129254.post-83244022644193353712010-06-02T01:20:45.701-07:002010-06-02T01:20:45.701-07:00I always love to read your blog Ms. D and this one...I always love to read your blog Ms. D and this one makes me admire you most.<br />I agree that males and females has its own individuality even identical twins has their own indentity. And I think that is one of the reasons why some relationships won't last. Acceptance and trust is a big key and you are right with that.<br />Learn to accept that in reality nobody is perfect that can fit with our expectations towards the another.<br /><br />Nice entry here Ms. D.<br />Goodspeedferry'zWILLhttp://gorgeousferry.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1634805388842129254.post-61234787785987861272010-05-31T05:54:02.964-07:002010-05-31T05:54:02.964-07:00@ Sexylegsandbody.. Collin..so very true...there a...@ Sexylegsandbody.. Collin..so very true...there are so many different reasons why people marry or commit to a relationship all thinking it is in the name of Love. It might very well be the newness that partners experience at first that is the blinding light. This newness feeling or stage of every relationship can be in fact what contributes to the Love is blind theory..which in turn when not allowed to level out before the actual commitment is made...the crack in the wall so to speak.<br />A relationship will always stand on a strong foundation when the proper material is used and the proper amount of time is spent building it.<br />The material is all about knowledge acceptance and understanding.<br />Acceptance being number 1 in my books.<br />I have said this many times..." It is not about changing your partner into who you want them to be...rather...accepting them for who they want to be which is who they are~~Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03515108852664219576noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1634805388842129254.post-24240262944269187312010-05-30T23:03:06.642-07:002010-05-30T23:03:06.642-07:00Hi...dorothy
You have sweet and sexy blog and I a...Hi...dorothy<br /><br />You have sweet and sexy blog and I add ur blog in my blogroll please add my link too in ur blogroll :DEdmontechhttp://www.edmontonnaoshweek.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1634805388842129254.post-67699556491939201062010-05-28T21:51:45.932-07:002010-05-28T21:51:45.932-07:00Love reading your post, D.
You're right, males...Love reading your post, D.<br />You're right, males and females are very different, but they can complete one another and become a good team :)lina@women's perspectiveshttp://www.womenandperspectives.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1634805388842129254.post-30410980956276515062010-05-28T18:27:03.057-07:002010-05-28T18:27:03.057-07:00so true D.... I agree! compromise and understandin...so true D.... I agree! compromise and understanding added with respect ... thanks for dropping by.Verna Lugahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17860286723863535535noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1634805388842129254.post-22308026443156090062010-05-27T23:17:48.461-07:002010-05-27T23:17:48.461-07:00thanks 4 visit ...
good luck..
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I am in my second marriage a...Right on, Dorothy L!<br /><br />I am in my second marriage and now old enough to appreciate the truth and wisdom in what you have written. Today I know that I married Gail because I was smitten by the way she thinks/acts/feels/etc. Then there are those moments when I may be a little irritated by one of our little differences. In the past, I would have wanted her to change to be more like me. Today, I am able to quickly recognize those moments, and just as quickly appreciate her for all she is, for those exact differences. She is who she is, and I love her just that way, and I am grateful that she has chosen to share it all with me!Ferdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13133599848717783477noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1634805388842129254.post-33148724126030330232010-05-26T20:02:05.000-07:002010-05-26T20:02:05.000-07:00i agree with you - ACCEPTANCE IS THE KEY!
if only...i agree with you - ACCEPTANCE IS THE KEY!<br /><br />if only both male and female accepts the other as they are...plus securing the other that he or she is accepted. <br /><br />yet again, i love your wisdom, ms. d! thanks for adding ;)bleephttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02958127826984810674noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1634805388842129254.post-18880315438585472312010-05-26T06:08:55.700-07:002010-05-26T06:08:55.700-07:00Such an interesting post, D. Roles have changed ov...Such an interesting post, D. Roles have changed over the years, often because of divorce and women needing to take the lead in providing for their children by the necessity or desire for a career or because men have abandoned their leadership roles. Until men assume some responsibility for the disparity between the sexes, it may take a long time for us to meld together as we should.<br /><br />I have always believed that true love is unconditional, accepting the faults and flaws of one another as well as the commonalities. It is the differences between the sexes that make them viable as partners. We need men to "man-up" and become the leaders in their homes that they were meant to be. Perhaps then, there can be a re-feminization of women.Cher Duncombehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00070334939399949702noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1634805388842129254.post-55528645186202668912010-05-26T04:23:33.721-07:002010-05-26T04:23:33.721-07:00@One of the Guys...
Just in your thought about bei...@One of the Guys...<br />Just in your thought about being considered sexist if you brought this topic up...says so much about how discombobulated @ defensive we have become. We are without a doubt different in our human design and way of thought processing but we are all equal in the fact that we are human beings.<br /><br />I definitely agree that the differences are a very good thing~Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03515108852664219576noreply@blogger.com